Frisky Neighbors

Join Carnelian and Saphyre as they unravel the intricacies of ethical non monogamy and the swinger lifestyle. Dive into personal stories, debunk myths, and get inspired by interviews with others in the lifestyle. whether your curious or a seasoned participant, dixcover a community where every relationship is celebrated.

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Latest episodes

10 September 2025

How Often Do You Play? The Frequency Discussion

Carnelian and Sapphire of the Frisky Neighbors podcast discuss the intricacies of frequency in the swinging lifestyle, highlighting that there is no one-size-fits-all. They explore different factors that affect how often couples go out to 'play', such as individual needs, relationship goals, and personal availability. They reinforce that participation in the lifestyle is not about constant intimate escapades, but about finding and maintaining a balance that suits everyone involved. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication between partners in navigating these waters and ensuring that expectations align with realities.

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04 September 2025

A Frisky Dive into the Lifestyle: From Beginners to 20-Year Veterans

In this enthralling episode, hosts Carnelian and Sapphire take listeners on an exploration of the swinging lifestyle, sharing personal anecdotes and insights from their beach takeover adventure. Featuring input from a diverse range of individuals, with experience spanning from six months to over 20 years, this discussion delves into the dynamics of swinging. Topics include discovering the lifestyle through Craigslist, Reddit, and other unconventional means, and how different couples define and navigate their unique dynamics, such as same-room full swap and hot wife setups. Listener discretion is advised, as the podcast contains mature language and themes revolving around relationships and sexual exploration.

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28 August 2025

The Beach Bash: Wind, Waves, and Babysitter Blunders

Discover the ups and downs of a lively beach weekend with Saphyre and Carnelian. Faced with a babysitter debacle threatening their getaway and wild winds wreaking havoc on their setup, the couple adapts to keep their spirits high. They recount tales of meeting new friends like Flower, dancing until dawn, and creatively navigating unexpected challenges. From daylong adventures filled with music and laughter to nights adorned with sea-inspired outfits, their escapades highlight the importance of flexibility and friendship. This episode offers a glimpse into their vibrant world, blending humor, romance, and unforgettable seaside moments.

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22 August 2025

From Dark Months to Milestone Celebrations: Fristy Neighbors Return

In this episode of Fristy Neighbors, hosts Sapphire and Carnelian recount their return to podcasting after a challenging hiatus. Interrupted by busy family lives and personal commitments, the duo finally made their comeback around Sapphire's birthday, an event that marked their re-entry into the lifestyle. Despite a misadventure to a mislocated beach event, they reveled in reconnecting with old friends and embracing new experiences. Join them as they share the highs and lows of balancing family life and their social commitments, offering candid insights and humorous anecdotes about managing both worlds.

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10 March 2025

A Natural Journey Into the Frisky Neighbors Lifestyle

This week your frisky neighbors discuss more about what got them to where they are today

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06 March 2025

From Research to Reality: Our Lifestyle Journey

Carnelian and Sapphire return with an insightful podcast episode about the role of rules in defining the lifestyle. They highlight how setting boundaries like 'no secrets' and 'what's allowed for one is allowed for all' create trust and fairness in relationships. The couple discusses their strategy of 'pre-COVID research' which allowed them to craft well-thought-out rules before venturing into the lifestyle. They share how these rules not only help in lifestyle scenarios but also enhance everyday communication with partners. Listeners are encouraged to develop their personalized rules and foster open communication for a stress-free lifestyle experience.

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